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A GATEWAY SERMON



Because He first loved us
(First in the series, Opening Ourselves to God)

Jerry Varnado, pastor
Gateway Church, Athens GA

April 7, 2002

In closing the Easter sermon last week, I said that to appropriate the power of the resurrection into your life, you need to do three things:

1) Open your life to God's love;

2) Open your heart to God's grace;

3) Open your mind to God's power.


In this series

1-Because He First Loved Us

2-Conduits of God's Love

3-God Takes the Initiative

4-Trusting Grace and Grace Alone

5-God's Grace and Our Holiness

6-Staying Power

7-Going Power


As I was seeking God and contemplating the upcoming sermons between now and Pentecost Sunday, I felt like these three statements needed to be focused on a bit more. So I'm starting a new series today titled "Opening Ourselves to God."

I'll spend at least two Sundays on each of the three topics, starting with the first one: "Open you life to God's love."

Look with me at Matthew 22:34-40:

Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together. One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?"

Jesus replied: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."

Jesus says very clearly that everything hinges on loving God with all our being -- and loving our neighbors as ourselves. This ought to be a concern to anyone who has thought about it, because we are not capable of it!

The difficulty of this is made even more apparent when we read on and discover that "neighbor" includes those who are difficult to love -- even our enemies.


Why would God love me?

What we have to understand is that this love that Jesus is talking about -- for God and for our neighbor -- doesn't originate with us. Our love is a response to God's love for us.

Now, for many of us there's an obstacle here, because we have a hard time believing that God loves us. And yet we must believe that if we're to keep these two great commandments.

Why do I say that ? Look with me at two Scriptures. The first is 1 John 4:19:

We love because he first loved us.

I don't think it would violate the rules of translation to add one word: "We can love because he first loved us." His love makes our love possible.

Next, look at Romans 5:5:

And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.

Believing that God loves us -- not simply that He's fond of us but that He has a deep, passionate, holy love for us -- is the basis for the whole gospel. Back in December, I preached about this very thing in a sermon titled, "Love Came Down at Christmas."

We must believe and receive God's love for us before we'll gain much ground in our spiritual development -- before we can love love Him, love ourselves, and love others.

Now, as I said, trying to believe that God loves us presents challenges for many of us.
Frankly, some of us -- myself included -- have done some pretty bad things. Because of that we don't think much of ourselves and we find it hard to believe that God could love us.

Some of us have experienced various kinds and levels of abuse. Abuse, regardless of its form, very often results in some level of self-hatred or self-abasement. We irrationally presume that the abuse comes because we are bad, that we deserve it, it's our fault.

Some of us have experienced poor parenting and we transfer our feelings for and our presuppositions about our parents to our heavenly parent, God the Father. If "I didn't experience love from my mom and dad, it's difficult for me to believe that God could love me and to receive His love."

Some of us have experienced tragic circumstances which we have blamed -- consciously or subconsciously -- on God. "God must not love me because He either caused or allowed all of this bad stuff to happen."


Overcoming hurts

Most of us probably have -- or at least used to have -- a distorted understanding of "love." We really don't understand what true love is or what it looks and feels like, so it's difficult for us to recognize God's love.

What do we do about that? Is it up to God to fix it or us or is this our responsibility? This is a common issue in our understanding of how God works in our lives. We constantly have to wrestle with, "What is my part and what is God's part?"

Now, this may not be a hard-and-fast rule, but it's been my experience that God won't do for me in dealing with the hurts and struggle of life what I can do for myself. He's given me the grace and the ability to do certain things, and he expects me to do them. He expects me to take action.

The late Oswald Chambers put it this way: "God doesn't give us overcoming life; He gives us life as we overcome."

Look with me at a question-and-answer from Romans 8 that touches on this. First, the question, in verse 35:

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?...

Paul answers that question two verses later:

No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.

Did you see that? "We are... through Him." Overcoming the hurts and scars of living in a fallen world is a joint effort between us and God. He gives us the tools and the power to do it, but we must act.

As we do, we can begin to more fully recognize and receive His love, and live with Him in a true love relationship.


The road to freedom

Let's look at two texts that show us how we can be liberated from the bondage of our past. The first is John 8:31-32:

To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

There's a cause-and-effect here. To be set free, we must hold to His teaching. His teaching in the truth, and it is the truth that frees us.

Spiritual and emotional bondage is most often the result of believing a lie, and a lie can be just as powerful as the truth if we believe it.

The Apostle Paul reinforces Jesus' teaching about the liberating nature of the truth in Romans 12:2:

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is -- his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Let me give you and illustration about how our minds are so often influenced by things that simply aren't true.

In some respects, you and I are lot like computers. I know some of you don't like computers -- but bear with me because I think this illustration will be helpful to you.

A computer is nothing but an organized pile of metal and plastic that has some unique capabilities because of its CPU, or central processing unit. The CPU consists of a series of connected memory chips.

Now, even with a CPU you can't do much of anything with a computer until it has been programmed. You first must have an operating system, which establishes a system of communications that enables it to do certain basic functions and to respond to certain commands and instructions from what we call computer programs.

Once a computer is properly programmed it will do a variety of things. It can do high-speed mathematical computations; it can assemble, store, and then retrieve and process or print all types of information; it can send and receive e-mail and faxes.

The frustration comes when it does something other than what it's supposed to do. It adds instead of subtracts, prints on the wrong line on the page, or just shuts down. The problem might be with hardware, but most of time it's in the software or the programming. In computer terminology, the software has a "bug" or a "glitch" in it, so the computer doesn't work like it is supposed to.

Back when I first started messing with computers in the 1970s, the commonly used term that related to a lot of the problems computers would develop was "GIGO" -- which stood for "garbage in, garbage out." The idea was that if your programming or your database was bad or unreliable -- if it was garbage -- you shouldn't expect a clean result from the computer. If you put garbage in, you're going to get garbage out.


Taking out the garbage

As I said, human beings are something like computers. Our hardware is our body; our CPU is our brain. When we malfunction, act or react in society in a way that's not considered within the range of normal, it can be a hardware problem. Physical illness or chemical imbalance can make us behave abnormally.

But most of our malfunctioning is a software problem. We have a bug or glitch in our programming.

When we were born our operating system was already in place, we could already hear, see, smell, feel, taste, eat and process food and make audible sounds, the body was functioning. But from that moment of birth we've been in the process of being programmed. Our brains are like memory chips, everything that goes through there gets stored somewhere. All of that information affects how we think, feel and act. But particularly that part which we've accepted as "truth" has a lot to do with our personality and our behavior.

Some of us still have a lot of garbage in here as a result of negative experiences and lies we've been taught to believe as the truth. Garbage in, garbage out.

Unfortunately, we've even been taught lies in the church. Let me give you an example: "Cleanliness is next to godliness." Sounds good, but it's not in the book -- contrary to what a lot of people think! I suspect Abraham and Moses would not have "clean" by our standards.

Ever heard, "God helps those who help themselves"? It's not in there! Indeed, my Bible says, in principle, that God helps those who help others.

Let's look again at Romans 12:2.

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is -- his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Some -- or maybe a lot -- of the programming that controls how we think, act, and relate to God and others came from the world. We've got garbage in here -- that's why we're garbage is coming out. Paul says we should take out the garbage, that we should let God "change our programming" by replacing the world's lies with His truth.


The practical steps

Here is how it works. First you have to decide what your standard for truth is going to be. The Bible is my absolute standard for truth. I'm convinced that anything that contradicts what is clearly revealed in Scripture is a lie.

Now, let me say something about the term "truth." We have a common misconception that truth is always "objective" reality. What color is this wall? I know it is white because I can see it and I bought the paint we used to paint it. Unless something is wrong with your eyes you have to agree with me; it is objective reality.

But if I say, "God loves you" -- that's a different type of reality. Even though what I said is absolutely true, we're no longer operating in the realm of the objective. It is "subjective." You must exercise faith to believe it.

Your past experience, your programming glitch, may be screaming loudly that God doesn't love you. But the book says He does.

We all know John 3:16:

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

And consider Romans 5:8:

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.


The groundwork for your liberation

You have to make up your mind -- are you going to believe God? If you do, the truth will set you free to receive God's love, so you are then able to love yourself and your neighbor, even your enemies.

Now, don't hear me wrong. What I'm saying is simple but it's not necessarily easy. Our old patterns of thinking are deeply ingrained in us. They must be rooted out.

You may have to quote Scripture to yourself over and over again; insisting to your mind that we you're no longer to live by the lies but by the truth of God. You must be stubborn and unrelenting.

In time the truth will become ingrained in you and, in the process, will root out the lies.

But it all starts with getting to the place of allowing God to love you and loving Him in return. Then you have laid the groundwork for your liberation from everything that keeps you from abundant living. Believe the truth and it'll set you free.

This is all available because because He first loved us.



An audio tape of this sermon is available
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Request a tape by calling or writing the Gateway Church office.
Please specify tape number 020407a: Because He First Loved Us.



© 2002 Gerald R. Varnado


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