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A GATEWAY SERMON



The fruit of the Spirit is...
patience

(Fourth in a series)

Jerry Varnado, pastor
Gateway Church, Athens GA

November 3, 2002

So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under law.

The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

(Galatians 5:16-23)

As we continue today talking about the fruit of the Holy Spirit, let me remind you of the definition I've been using of "fruit." Fruit is that which is produced by the inherent energy of a living organism.


Sermons in this series:

The Fruit of the Spirit is Love...
Love is the root and foundation for all other fruit of the Spirit. It is God's love that enables us to live the Christian life.

The Fruit of the Spirit is...Joy
Joy flows from being in God's presence. By the Holy Spirit, the Lord's presence isn't just with us, it is within us.

The Fruit of the Spirit is...Peace
The peace of God is found in a particular place: the path of God's will and purpose for your life.

The Fruit of the Spirit is...Patience
We must learn to wait. Not doing so can lead to disastrous consequences.

The Fruit of the Spirit is...Kindness and Goodness
God's truth is "wrapped" in our lives for delivery to the world. Kindness and goodness are essential elements of the wrapper.

The Fruit of the Spirit is...Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-Control
Faithfulness prospers individuals and organizations; Gentleness resists using power inappropriately; Self-control means we can overcome behavior that violates biblical standards.



And remember that the character of the fruit is evidence of the character of the power producing it.

Now, what that means when we talk about fruit of the Spirit is that you can't have it if you don't have the Holy Spirit. You must have the Spirit of God living in you if you are going to have these qualities -- love, joy, peace, patience, and so on, as the Bible defines them -- growing in your life.

Before we get to the fruit I want to focus on today, let me remind you that although it is the Holy Spirit who produces these things in us, there is something you and I must do to foster these qualities. This is why we are commanded to love, to be patient, gentle, good, kind, and so on.

God doesn't force us to be the way He wants us to be. Even though the Holy Spirit produces the fruit, the fruit will not grow and develop within us without our cooperation.

We must desire and seek the growth of the fruit of the Spirit in our lives -- and we must do things that will cultivate that growth.

This is why Paul tells us in Galatians 5:16:

"So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature."

How do we do that? How do we "live by the Spirit"?

First we must the right mindset. Look with me at Romans 8:5.

Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.

We focus our minds on the things of the Spirit by giving our attention to the study of God's word.

But that's not all. In addition to having the right mindset, we must follow through with obedience to what the Word says.

Turn to 1 John 2, starting at verse 3:

We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands. The man who says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But if anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him.

And flip over another page or two to 1 John 5:3:

This is love for God: to obey his commands.

We must actively seek to obey that Word, and to submit ourselves to the leadership of the indwelling Holy Spirit.

We focus ourselves to the Spirit by constantly reminding ourselves of God's presence and His desire to lead and guide us in our day-to-day living. We also should try to stay constantly aware that God seeks to use us and may have a special thing for us to do at any moment. We need to keep our minds and hearts focused on the Spirit and the Kingdom.


Patience encouraged

So far, as we looked at the various fruit of the Holy Spirit, we have talked about love, and joy, and peace. Today, let's look at the fruit of patience.

Patience is a virtue highly regarded in Scripture. Listen to a few Proverbs from the Bible's great book of wisdom. First, Proverbs 14:29:

A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly.

Also Proverbs 16:32:

Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.

And Proverbs 19:11:

A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.

And finally, look at Proverbs 25:15:

Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.

Likewise, the New Testament, in a dozen or more verses, encourages us to be patient.


Patience defined

I suspect that many of you are like me. I have often prayed to God: "Lord, give me patience and please hurry up. I don't have time to wait for it patiently; I need it right now."

That request is often made in conjunction with someone who has been irritating, or annoying, or has provoked us in some way, yanked our chain or pushed our button.

Certainly that is part of patience but it is more than that. Look at this definition of patience on the video screens:

You see, patience goes way beyond just enduring annoying people without losing your temper. It includes perseverance in the face of hardship, difficulty or persecution.

Some translations of the Bible, including the King James Version and the New King James Version render the Greek word for patience as "longsuffering" -- and that probably gives us a better understanding of the depth of its meaning.

Jesus warned us that in the world we would have hardship, which will increase as the end draws near. Jesus warns us to not grow impatient, to not give up on God and abandon the faith but rather endure patiently to the end until God fully works out His plan and purpose.


Patience developed

God uses all manner of circumstances to work on our patience to prepare us for what lies ahead in life. One commentator described patience as "love on trial." Our children, husbands, wives, and friends sometimes put our love on trial.

Patience isn't just about waiting, but how we act while we're waiting. A patient person will be able to endure the stuff, whatever it might be, without losing their temper or their joy, peace, hope, or their sense of humor.

I don't know about you but God has ample opportunity every day to work on my patience: Fast food that isn't fast; traffic jams and inconsiderate drivers, especially those who park crooked and take up two spaces in a crowded lot, or stop in middle of the street to talk; standing in long checkout lines while looking at ten unused cash registers; the doctor who can't see you for three days when you're so sick you'd have to get better to die; children and employees who fail to do what they are supposed to do, or do what exactly what they've been told not to do.

I haven't even mentioned how we try our own patience with our forgetfulness, failures and shortcomings.


Temporary vs. eternal

The real test of patience is waiting upon God.

Are you waiting on God for anything? I mean something that's good and holy -- something you believe is yours because you are His, but you haven't received it yet.

How do we deal with that? Well, keep in mind that patience has to do with time. Being "in time" means that there is a past, present and future; a beginning and an end; a first and a last.

We are in time, for now, but God is not in time. Jesus said, "I am the Alpha and the Omega, the first and the last the beginning and the end." God is eternal and therefore he never runs out of time, and He is never in a hurry.

When you received Jesus as Savior and Lord you were given His life, which is eternal life. How does that relate to patience? Let me quote my friend Lloyd Craft, pastor of Faith Gospel New Life church here in Athens: "Every problem you have is temporary and you are eternal."

Now, this is so hard for us to comprehend while we're still living in the reality of a temporal, fallen world. Yet if we want to experience the fruit of patience, we must grasp this truth.


The consequences of impatience

We also need to be clear about something else: impatience can produce disastrous consequences.

Remember the story of Abraham and Sarah? When they were 75 years old, God had promised them a son. They waited and waited, but no son came.

So Sarah gave Abraham her slave girl, Hagar, as a second wife and she got pregnant and birthed a son named Ishmael. The result of all that was contention between Sarah and Hagar, which spread to dissension in the family.

Then Sarah and Abraham had the son God had promised, Isaac, and the dissension in the family increased. Eventually, Abraham was forced to send Hagar and Ishmael away.

Tradition holds that Ishmael's descendants are the present day Arabs and Isaac's descendants are the Jews. The result of their impatience is a deadly international feud spanning thousands of years.

Another example of impatience that produced disastrous results: Judas Iscariot. I'm talking about the impatience he demonstrated after he betrayed Jesus.

Here's what I mean. Yes, Judas betrayed Jesus -- but so did all the others in some way. They all denied and deserted him.

But the rest of the Twelve disciples went on to become pillars of the church while Judas ended up a suicide. Distraught over what he had done, he went out and hanged himself.

He just couldn't wait to allow the thing to work itself out; he couldn't wait on God to accomplish His purpose. By his impatient action, he cut himself off from the grace of God.

You and I must put -- and keep -- our hope in a faithful God and not let the pressure of time drive us to impatient action that can hinder God's work in our lives.


Wait for the LORD

David is one of my favorite biblical characters because he is so real. His shortcomings were obvious, but his faith in God's goodness and mercy was absolutely unflappable.

Yes, his impatient actions often caused him hardship, but his patience with God, his confidence that God's mercy and love would never fail him, allowed him to persevere into victory.

I'll close by reading some thoughts David left with us about patience -- patience in waiting for God to fulfill His purpose.

First from Psalm 27, starting at verse 13:

I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.

Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.

Also look at Psalm 37, starting at verse 3:

Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.

Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.

Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him; do not fret when men succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.

Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret-it leads only to evil. For evil men will be cut off, but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land.

A little while, and the wicked will be no more; though you look for them, they will not be found. But the meek will inherit the land and enjoy great peace.

Now, dear friends, be joyful in hope, patient in affliction and faithful in prayer that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please Him in every way bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the Saints of the Kingdom of Light. Amen.

The fruit of the Spirit is. . .patience.



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© 2002 Gerald R. Varnado


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