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Doing life together

Joseph Slife, lay leader
Gateway Church, Athens GA

January 23, 2005

I want to begin by reading the same text Pastor Jerry has read for the past two weeks -- a text that briefly describes life in the early church.

I'm purposely going to skip the references to the Temple and to Apostolic miracles, not because those things aren't important, but because I want us to focus on the dynamic among the believers -- the "average church members," so to speak.

Listen to this -- from Acts, chapter 2 -- selected portions of verses 42-47, and I'm reading from the simplified translation known as the NIrV. Listen carefully:


The believers studied what the apostles taught. They shared life together. They broke bread and ate together. And they prayed. Everyone felt that God was near....

All the believers were together. They shared everything they had.... They gave each other everything they needed....

Their hearts were glad and honest and true. They praised God. They were respected by all the people. Every day the Lord added to their group those who were being saved.


Let's pray.

Father, we don't meet in the Temple Courts, and we don't have Peter, James, and John among us, but may it be of us as it was of that early believers that we share life together in a way that pleases you and attracts others to Jesus Christ. Amen.


Important words

Last Sunday, we had a couple of visitors -- a husband and wife who are new to Athens -- who came here because they saw our ad in the new phone book, and it caught their attention.

I talked with them for a few minutes after the service, and Ron -- the husband -- said that they've been in many localities over the years and have discovered that they can learn a lot about a church from the words it uses to describe itself in a phonebook ad.

Now, just in case you haven't seen our new phonebook ad, I'm gonna show it to you in just a minute -- and talk about the words that are there.

They are important words. They are words that, I trust, will guide us on our journey in the days, months, and years ahead.

But first, let me quickly revisit some other words -- our covenant words that Pastor Jerry has been talking about these past two weeks. They're on the banner right back there: prayers, presence, gifts, service.

Anytime someone joins this church, we have a ceremony right here. That person enters into a membership covenant with the Lord in the context of this local church and our denomination.

The person joining affirms his or her belief in Christ, and then pledges to live out the Christian faith in the context of this local body of believers by participating in the ministry of this church through his or her prayers, presence, gifts, and service.

That's what Jerry's been talking about for two, really three, weeks -- if you include our covenant renewal service at the first of the year.


Our mission

Today, I want to take it a step further and talk with you about our mission as a church. You see, the prayers, presence, gifts, and service are in support of the mission. It's prayer directed toward something, service directed toward something, etc.

Our mission statement -- the mission statement of Gateway Church -- is, in its short form, only four words: "Helping People Experience God."

That's our mission. That's our calling. How can I help you, how can you help me, how can we help others out there, experience the grace, the truth, the reality of God in Jesus Christ?

Well, we've now expanded our mission statement to give four specifics, four tracks that we can run on as we focus on "Helping People Experience God."

And this what's in our phone book ad. Here's what it says: "Helping People Experience God through Vital Worship, Biblical Truth, Positive Relationships, Hands-On Ministry."

That's a good outline for a sermon series, but since I have only one Sunday, I'm going to focus in on just one of these. Maybe one-and-a-half.


Vital worship, biblical truth

But first let me say something just very quickly about the ones I'm not going to focus on: vital worship and biblical truth.

Jerry talked with us about vital worship last week -- about worship that is alive, worship in which experience the very presence of God through the ministry of the Holy Spirit.

Several years ago, I saw a new story about a survey that asked regular worship attenders how often they had a sense of God's presence during worship services. Twenty-seven percent said, "Always." Twelve percent said, "Usually." About 60 percent said "rarely" or "never." These are regular worship attenders.

So when we say we want people to experience God through vital worship, that's a big thing. One church says this about worship on it's Web site: "[We want to create an environment in which] people leave powerful worship services shaking their heads in wonder at the nearness they felt there to God."

That's what we're going for, too. It's vital worship. Worship that experiences the presence of the living God.

Next is "biblical truth." This means that Scripture is the basis of and the context for everything we do. It is our source of authority, our sure Word, our steady guidance.

I may or may not have something I can say to help somebody who's struggling with life. But the Word always have something to say.

In our discipleship classes, in our prayer time, in our worship services, in our one-on-one encounters with people, we can help them experience God through God's Word, through biblical truth.


Positive relationships

Well, now here's what I really want focus on today -- the third specific in our mission statement: "Helping People Experience God Through... Positive Relationships."

There are a couple of different aspects to this. First there are relationships within the Body. This is what pastor and author Ted Haggard calls "Doing Life Together."

As wonderful and as important as Sunday morning worship is, it is only part of doing life together.

Doing life together means being in community. It means having the time to really get to know one another. And that will not happen from 10:30 a.m. to Noon on Sunday.

So there needs to be another forum for this. A time when we can share needs and pray for one another. A time when folks can say, "Here's what I'm struggling with" -- or "Let me tell how God answered my prayer."

And I have good news. We have a fair amount of this going on already -- in Sunday morning classes and Wednesday prayer meeting and Beth Moore studies.

We are a church with small groups. What I've been talking with Pastor Jerry and other leaders about is changing that model, so that we become a church of small groups.

In other words, the small group would be the basic structure of the church, and everyone would be in one.

Now, the Bible talks about inward groaning, and I'm sure some of you are doing that right now.

But before you say, "Oh, no, not something else to do," at least let me explain.


Ordering our life together

From it's earliest days, the church has been trying to figure how to structure itself to be most effective. Even in the Book of Acts, we read about how they created an order of deacons so that the Apostles could concentrate on prayer and study, and the deacons could concentrate of taking care of time-consuming benevolence situations.

And this attempt to deal with structure has been going on down through history.

Entire denominations take their names from the structure they came up with. Presbyterians have presbyteries -- which is simply a way of structuring the church. Episcopalians have an Episcopacy, which is another word describing a structure that has bishops.

All of this has been attempt to figure out the most efficient, most effective way to structure the church.

And that's what I'm talking about here -- a church of small groups rather than a church with small groups.

But listen, this doesn't mean we need to create lots of new stuff -- at least not right away.


A change in the way we think

Late last year, I read a very interesting book -- Jerry's reading it now -- titled Dog Training, Fly Fishing, and Sharing Christ in the 21st Century by Ted Haggard, pastor of New Life Church in Colorado Springs.

I'll explain the title in minute, but first I want to give you one of his key insights.

He says that after years of trying to do small group ministry -- and really swimming against the tide because people are busy -- it occurred to his leadership team that most people in the church were probably already in a small group of some type, it just wasn't called that.

For example, the church leaders realized that they had a praise-and-worship team that got together every week to rehearse. Here were people who were in community with one another, they prayed together, they shared concerns -- and the yet the church didn't recognize that as a small group.

And so what the church did was this. They said, "Hey, if you are regularly getting together with people to do a task in the church or to do an outside ministry together, we're now going to consider that to be a New Life Church small group."

Now, there are some things each of those groups had to start doing in addition to their task -- they had to have a time of prayer together when they meet. They have to have to set aside time to bring each other up-to-date with what's happening in their lives, so they can minister to one another.


A model to follow

Some of you saw the article in the July/August 2004 edition of Good News about Faithbridge United Methodist Church in Houston, Texas.

They meet in a middle school -- and every Sunday a set up and take down team goes into action. After setting up all the stuff necessary to transform a school into a church, they have 20 minutes of "team time," during which they have a devotion and prayer time together.

It's a small-group that's tied to a task. Faithbridge calls 'em "service" groups, and they've become a vital part of that church's small-group ministry. People in community with one another, doing life together.

Faithbridge also has many more traditional small groups that meet in people's homes and study Scripture together -- and some people who in a service group are also in a "study" group.

But even if they're not, there is a place, there is a group that they're part of, a group in which there is care and spiritual oversight.


Shared-interest small groups

Now, let me tell you about what else Faithbridge is doing -- and this is the second aspect of "Helping People Experience God through Positive Relationships." It's about relating to people who are not yet part of the Body, or who are on the fringes of church life.

And really what Ted Haggard's book, Dog Training, Fly Fishing, and Sharing Christ in the 21st Century, is all about.

Faithbridge is a new church, less than six years old, and they are focused on reaching people who are unchurched. How do you connect with someone who doesn't know the Lord or who's a very young believer? Do you ask 'em to come to a Bible study? Well, sometimes that works, but it's often intimidating to a person who doesn't know anything about Scripture.

Suppose you could say to your coworker, "Hey, listen, we've gotta a group guys who go fly fishing once a month. Why don't you come with us next time?"

Or, "Someone from my church is teaching a pottery class for six weeks. I'd really like it if you came with me."

What I'm describing is what known as a shared-interest small group -- a group built around something that may seem like an "unspiritual" activity, but the goal is 1) to build community in the body, and 2) to reach those outside the body.

These groups are about more than just fly fishing or dog training or pottery making, but that's the hook that draws people in.

And it can draw church people in as well as unchurched people. Someone who might not be interested in a Bible study might be interested in learning to play the guitar, or do PowerPoint, or talk about football.

It's a way to build community and draw people in -- but every group is -- by design and through leader training -- always about more than the shared interest. It's about using that interest as a way to connect with people in positive relationships, so we can help 'em experience God.


Creative ideas

Here in my hand is a the listing for the small-group ministry at Faithbridge Church in Houston. It now runs 41 pages. Remember, this is a church that started about six years ago.

Let me read just a few -- and these are groups of very different types:

Page 3 the H-U-G group -- "Homeschoolers Under God" -- "Homeschooling moms who meet for Bible study, support, and fellowship Monday afternoons." A sitter watches over the children. And the group takes a field trip together once a month."

Page 7 -- the L-A-M-P -- "Learning About Ministry with the Poor" -- Includes a study of what Scripture says about the poor and offers hands-on experience in ministry to the poor.

Page 9 -- the "Twenty-Someone" group -- For people in their 20s -- married or single. Praise-and-worship. Bible study. Hangin' out. Twice a month on Tuesdays.

Page 11 -- "Saturday Morning Men's Group" -- Meet at Bailey's for breakfast. Talk about discipleship opportunities, missed opportunities, prayer needs and growing closer to Christ.

Page 23 -- This one is a service group -- the "Connections Visiting Team" -- Follow up visits to first-time guests on Sunday afternoon.

Just one or two others -- These are some that are designed to attract people who are on the fringe of church life, or who are unchurched altogether.

Page 15 -- "Chess for Christ" -- "We meet at Starbucks on 2nd and 4th Wednesdays and use chess as a bridge to meet nonbelievers interested in playing a game or two."

Page 16 -- "The Spice of Life" -- Gourmet and creative cooking with emphasis on the the joys of living a Christian life.

By the way, at Faithbridge, they also consider their Sunday morning ministry to children to be small groups. They speak of small groups of kindergartners, 1st graders, etc.

Now, there's so much more I could say about this, but I hope you're starting to catch some of the vision for this way of doing church, of doing life together, of building positive relationships.


The voice of experience

A couple of days ago, I called the coordinator of small-group ministry at Faithbridge Church -- and I want to play part of that conversation for you now.

Remember, this is a church of small groups -- it's a model that's helped create a lot of excitement and momentum in that Body.

Here's part of my conversation with Barb Schnacke, coordinator of small-group ministry at Faithbridge United Methodist Church in Houston, Texas.

(audio clip - 3:30)


A change in our DNA

One of the things Barb told me is that this way of doing church has been built into their DNA from the start, when the church began with five people and a pastor almost six years ago.

Not long ago, Andy Hines and I were talking -- Andy's the chairman of our Gateway Church Council -- and he asked this question: "What are we going to be doing differently over there -- in our new building -- than we're doing here?"

It's Andy's sense -- and mine as well -- that changing locations, having a new facility, is only part of picture of what the Lord would have us do.

All of us are called to participate in the life of the church through our prayers, presence, gifts, and service -- and becoming a church of small groups opens the door to increased participation, more prayer, more presence, greater use of gifts, more effective use of service.

To accomplish this, we're going to have to change the way we think about church. We're going to have to alter our DNA.


Moving toward the goal

Now, that is a huge thing -- and we can't get there overnight, but we can make a start. We can set a goal and start moving toward it.

We can say, "This is where we're heading -- toward being a church of small groups, with service groups, study groups, prayer groups, shared-interest outreach groups. That's our model, that's what we're shooting for."

And we can begin by taking an inventory of what we already have going on. What groups do we already have meeting? What are all the separate things that go on that we can start thinking of as not separate, but all part of a our doing life together tapestry?

Over the past couple of weeks, most of you have been surveyed about small groups and about your interests. And here's what you told us.

More than 60 percent said you'd like to be in a regular Bible study. Twenty percent said you'd like a small group focused on going through a book and discussing it.

Almost 30 percent of you said you were willing to be a group leader.

As far as interests, more than 40 percent of you said you're interested in some kind of ministry having to do with the arts -- music, worship, visual arts, drama.

Thirty percent said you'd like to be involved in a prayer ministry.

More than 25 percent said you'd like to get involved with the Food Bank ministry.

Here's what these data tell us: We have people willing to be leaders, and we have enough common interest to launch some groups.

Which means that it's more a matter of planning and structure, than of desire and motivation. You want to do this -- you're just waiting for the church to say, "Yeah, let's do it." Of course, some of you aren't waiting, you've already started.


Ideas and leaders

So let me tell you what we're going to do to get this rolling. Because more than 60 percent of you said you'd be interested in a Sunday evening service, that's where we're going to start. A time of praise-and-worship and Bible study on Sunday evening -- and one combined group -- for a period of several weeks.

During that time, we'll be identifying our leaders and allowing them to develop the focus of the small groups they want to lead.

Maybe one leader will offer a study of a classic Christian book. Maybe one will want to go through one of the gospels. Perhaps one wants to have a praise-and-worship group to learn new songs and just spend in the Lord's presence. Maybe someone will want to lead a prayer group.

The idea is that we as a church want to be permission-giving -- to allow leaders to come up with ideas and see them through.

And if no one rallies to a particular idea -- maybe someone want to lead a study of Methodist history and doesn't have any takers -- well, that's OK. That leader will have to go back to the drawing board and try again.

There's much more about the nuts-and-bolts of being a church of small groups that I don't have time to go into, but let me put one other thing on the table.


Hands-on ministry

Barb Schnacke at Faithbridge told me that in the early days, before their groups became so diverse, they asked the regular study groups to one thing in addition to their regular group time -- and that was to, once a month, be involved in some kind of outreach.

The church would say: Here's a list of outreach things that we're committed to doing -- soup kitchen, food bank, Arbor Terrace, Angel Tree. We need your group to commit to supporting one of these things with your prayers, presence, gifts, and service.

That gets us to the fourth point of our mission statement about "hands-on" ministry. I'll talk about that some other time. But the point is: we always need to keep that outward look.

We always need to be asking how can we be the heart and hands of Jesus to the world around us?

And when you do outreach as a group, rather than as an individual, it brings a whole new dynamic to that outreach. When you're engaged in ministry with the people you study with, pray with, laugh with, cry with, it is -- as the founder of Blimpie's likes to say -- a beautiful thing.

Friends, this is where we're going. It's gonna be fun. It's gonna be challenging. It's gonna be doing life together.


Supporting text: Acts 6:1-4


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